So my Bro got a girl now, they been going steady for about a year and they’re getting more serious. Which means that he’s starting to make slight changes, so first I was like alright then he’s finished, need new-road dogs and I was thinking that I will back off bro but he’s a good dude man. And we talked about it, I voiced my thoughts, he said we always good, he hopes we can still be brothers and he’s happy with his chick. So he can’t check for hoes(no offense ladies that’s just how we communicate independent liberated woman) so yeah, no hoes with me and he hopes I support him. I told my bro I got him, besides I put thought into it, i think it’s best that I do stick by him and here are three reasons why you shouldn’t fall back off your homie because they’re in a committed relationship.
- Honor and integrity
If that dude or female is able to be in committed relationship, stay down with somebody, honor that person by keeping their word and not running out on them or doing foul-ish behind they back. You should stay close to that person because they’ll do the same for you. The way they treat a spouse can sometimes teach you a lot and you need to find somebody that is real, who has honor and integrity in any type relationship these days because not a lot of people do, like even some of our oldest friends are scumbags so might as well stick by the ones who showcase those qualities.
Growth man, it’s time to grow out here fam, relationships help you grow, you can learn a lot with certain people when you take a break from fucking and actually talk. And when you are just the single friend you need to learn how to be a support system for your friend who is in a relationship. And as you get older you can’t just surround yourself with a bunch of single people that ain’t growing, that ain’t getting married and that ain’t starting families. Because you’ll never know if that situation is for you, because you kind of get a feel of how it will be for you, even though every relationship has its own identity and besides you can’t be hanging out at the clubs forever, you can’t be fucking multiple people and running around turning up forever. Eventually you have go transcend to either start a family or be learning how to be that cool-ass uncle or auntie that mentors and gives advice.
3. Your Turn
Your time is coming baby, you don’t want to be in a relationship and you’re friends fall back on you. Be the friend you want, so you cultivate friends that will still be there for you and then at the same time it’s good because when you’re in a relationship, your friend that you stuck by that was or still is, you can now turn to him or her for advice or just to hang out with. Also while relationships, You guys kicking it can keep each other in line and not advocate certain behaviors if eachother isn’t single.
So, next time one of your friends gets cuffed(in a relationship), stay in touch and stay down because they will come in handy for when you get in a relationship or if your already in one.